why does it even surprise me....

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

So, I called Citibank to let them know I may be using my credit card outside the states and guess what? Apparently, they made the decision to cancel my card in Jan this year because I hadn't used it in 4 months. Really? WTF Citibank. I didn't even get any notification. Plus, I haven't used it in 4 months because they kept upping the APR on me without telling me. Bloody shady is what that is.

I wonder if they'll close my bank account too cos I haven't been using it since they are terrible in general and their customer service sucks for both bank accounts and credit cards...why no, I do not want to talk to you, Meh-tew, because you're obviously answering my call from a call center in India since you can't even pronounce your English name right and you keep telling me that the server is down for updates when I want to make any type of changes to my account.

The lady I spoke to today was like, if you want, I can transfer you and you can sign up for a new credit card. Are you kidding me? I was on the fence with Citibank but this is the last straw - never again Citibank, never again. They've lost all my business (I think I'll go close my account this week and just stick with Bank of America) and I will never recommend them to anyone. Absolutely horrible!

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Monday, June 21, 2010

#$#^$%*^@! this used car situation. I'm so pissed right now.

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you want to lecture me about being selfish? well, fuck you, you bloody hypocrite.

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What now????

Friday, June 18, 2010

So, remember how excited we were to have scored a car two days ago?? well, Char went to the DMV and the change of title can't be processed without a smog cert. The dude who sold it to us had apparently smogged it like 6 months ago which leaves us SOL because it needs to be within 3 months to be valid. We took it in today to get a smog check and it FAILED!!!!!! It passes the nox check for the 25 mph but not for the 15 mph. WTF?!? In my sister's words "so, we're polluting if we drive slow but okay if we drive fast?"

Yeah, we're both not happy campers right now. But we called the guy and I spoke to him and he agreed to pay for the smog failure diagnostics and depending on how much it costs to fix the problem, he might pay the full amount or we work something out. At least he didn't run away and not pick up and all. But this still sucks. Also, the odometer says 103, 000 miles but the title says 141,000. So, in the 8 months the dude had the car, it changed. The mechanic at the smog place told us that's a huge thing we could nail him with because it's fraud. So, if he doesn't work with us to get everything sorted out, we're gonna report him. Also, no smog cert = no change of title = the car is still in his name (well, his girlfriend's name) so he knows he can't run cos if he does and we're vindictive, we can rack up the traffic fines on the car (like parking fines or camera-caught red light violations, etc) and he'll have to pay or lose his license. We're not like that and totally want to sort everything out but I hope he realizes how much damage we could do if we were so inclined. I wish we could just get our money back in exchange for the car but we can't. apparently he's used the money already.....it's probably a lie but that just means we can't do a 90 day return like at the stores. Boo.

Regardless, we can't check or do anything until we get the diagnostics done on Monday. The dude offered to fix the car himself but we really don't trust him to do a good job. See? we're learning. The learning curve is a steep one but that's life. It's just one more thing checked off on my check list of things I've been screwed over for in America. I have one for each country; it's easier to keep track of that way and makes for interesting comparisons. 

So yeah, despite my near constant googling of any and all resources on buying a used car, there are many perils that google did not warn me about. FML.

Also, the creepy black dude who tried to sell us the Mazda called Char twice yesterday to see if we want the car and then when we called back today to say no, he was like, "so now that we've got business out of the way, when are you free to hang out?" She tells him she's too busy. "Oh, what about your friend?" My sis looks at me and lies about me leaving this weekend. "Oh, alright. Can I keep your number and call you to chat?" WTF? Seriously?!?!? Char has got his number saved under "Creeper. Do NOT Answer" Apparently, he called about an hour later but we were receiving the bad news about the smog test and didn't hear the phone. ......ooops....too bad.....NOT! Jeeze, why us???

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finally, the search has ended!

Thursday, June 17, 2010

So, shopping on craigslist for a used car on a very small budget is ....quite an experience. After a couple days of intensive searching (because we've learnt that all the good stuff goes quickly - sometimes just hours after being posted!), we've got a new addition to the family fleet:

A '97 Honda Civic! Yay!

It's a little beat up and will need some work done but we think we done good for what we paid. The budget was about $3000, we got it for $2300 and repairs will probably cost about $500-700 ish. Not bad for San Jose.

Honestly though, if we could have afforded something more for less hassle we definitely would have paid it because the search was annoying and definitely left us with some stories to tell :/

The first car we went to look at was a '95 Honda accord. It looked good on the outside but that was because the guy selling it had an autobody shop and had repainted it so he could sell it for more. It was about our price range and Char was optimistic because she thought the seller was Asian - and we all know that the stereotypical asian dude ALWAYS keeps his car in good shape. lol. Uh, Char's racial meter via the phone sucks because the guy was Hispanic. There's nothing wrong with that. I just thought it was funny how she totally could not tell through the phone. Anyhoo, we ask a couple of questions and every time we touched on something we thought was wrong with the car, the guys would start with, " Uh yeah, about that....." He had apparently bought it at an auction and fixed it up. While that's fine and the outside looked brand spankin' new, things were broken and there were holes in the seats.The engine also made this loud squealing noise before rumbling to life rather reluctantly ("Yeah, about that.....my mechanic says that's normal for that kind of car." Seriously? Do you think we were born yesterday??). We took it around the block and it was loud as heck. So yeah, no. 1 car down, and the search continues.

The next car we looked at was this Mazda being sold by an African American dude. Char thought he sounded Mexican on the phone. That's phone 2, Char 0. He came rumbling in on his harley and was super nice....at first. he was up front about some major things the car needed and as we took it around the block, it was loud but not as loud as the first one. We chatted and apparently he used to be a fireman (it made me think of you Queena) and was injured and taking fire classed at community college. Now, it's the stupidest thing but I always feel that men in uniform like firemen, EMTs and policemen are less likely to scam me....it's probably not true but that's how we've been conditioned - to always trust uniformed officers (urm, except for the cops back home. with them you always know that they won't even bother trying to scam you; they just ask for the bribe upfront). So when he mentioned the fireman thing along with the (vague) honesty he showed about the car's major defaults, I was more inclined to trust him about the car than say, car guy #1 from the day before. He also mentioned that he used to be a mechanic for Toyota and we could obviously see that he was working on several classic cars at his place (He had a very sweet mustang he was restoring).

So it's all good. Until he starts being inappropriate. It starts off small - a comment about us being "beeautiiiful girls from Maaaalaysiiiiaaaa" and went on to "do you guys date" and "Have you ever dated a black guy". Urm....what??? He then insistently gives me a ride on his harley (because I said I don't like motorbikes and had never been on one and I figure, eh, what the heck) which was nice of him but then he mentions that I can now say that my first "ride" was with a black man and he tells us to add him on facebook and that he wants to take us out to dinner and we can ride with him and his motorbike buddies. EXCUSE ME ?!? WTH?!? yeah, we tried to leave so many times but he just went on and on and on. general conversation is fine but we've only just met you like 15 mins ago! Innuendos and questions about our dating lives and weird overtures of friendship? So NOT okay! Then he calls char the next day to chat. Urm. As interested as we were in the car, this dude was seriously creeping us out so we cut our losses and lied and hopefully we'll never see/hear from him ever again.That's like 2 hours wasted.

Next dude we met with for a '96 honda was suuuuuuuper shady. once again, Char thought he was Asian....he was Mexican. lol. Phone 3, Char 0. It looked alright but he was very pushy. Before we had even gone around the block completely, he pretty much asked us for the entire amount in cash upfront right then and there and kept telling us that he had so many ppl lined up for it. He also didn't want us to check the car out at a mechanic's and when asked about the pink slip and bill of sale, he took out some crumpled pieces of paper from his pocket. Urm? It wasn't even his car. He was so pushy and shady, we said no then went grocery shopping. lol. He later called Char and was like, when you wanna come and see the car and Char was like....urm, I just saw it. i wanted to take it in to a mechanic tomorrow. He quickly hung up on her.

Finally, we end up at yesterday's car experience which was actually relatively painless and more legit than any of the others. We checked it out, test drove it and brought it to the mechanic. There are a couple of major defects that will require work (but we kinda knew it would based on how much we were paying for it), it's a little scratched up and has really tacky zebra floor mats (we're tossing those. eww.) and they totally lied about the mileage (it was still less than every other car we'd seen) but the guy was super nice, pretty up front about things and was very patient when we brought it to be checked out and a few hours later, my sis is the proud owner of her first car! :) This whole buying a used car is a huge hassle though. I can totally see why a lot of ppl like to go to dealers. But beggars can't be choosers and we managed to luck out fairly quickly in the search for transportation. Man, was that exhausting!

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what a weekend

Monday, June 14, 2010

Nessie's birthday weekend was awesome :)

the general gathering at 83 proof was good - saw some familiar faces and had to entertain weird new ones (bleh) and nessie was totally right about the bartender being really really hot AND he could make some amazing cocktails that I sampled off the 'mos. yum. Like all drunken nessie gatherings, it was very entertaining to see her totter around the bar and try to stay in her red hoochie mama dress. lol. i think some of the best quotes from that night were:

~ "i'm not going to titty fuck my phone!" ~ when Nessie, worried about losing her phone, refused to keep it in the cleavage between dolce and gabbana because Lilo was gonna be evil and call it while it sat between the ginormous boobies

~ " my dress is three six inch penises long! see, one, two, three!"~ when Van rather loudly hand measured the length of her red hochie mama dress

i'm sure there were more but i really can't remember them. lol.

the indo mee after was really good too, especially when van cooked it and fried an egg drunk and mostly blind at 3am. real talent right there.

day 2 of the nessie extravaganza was fairly mellow in the morning as we wandered around the mission then took like a 15 min nap :) Then it was off to Foreign Cinema where the food was pretty good and terribly expensive - the fried chicken was probably the best entree, the sea bass....not so much, the aprium tart was good and the sexy beast was wonderful - tastes almost like ribena. the movie, a single man, looked interesting. might have to go watch it now. the 'mos all looked really nice and sonny proved that he was not a bad gay by finding a shiney card and great watch for nessie. After dinner drinks and desserts were followed by more drinks and a cheese plate at this wine bar called Heart where there were loads of marina yuppies slummin' it and we sat next to a group of cougars and talked loudly about sex. lol. And to top it all off, the 'mos took my gay bar cherry by bringing me to the castro to dance. it was great since there weren't any guys trying to grossly hump me on the dance floor (biggest pet peeve at a club) but also terribly depressing because a whole bunch of the guys there were just gorgeous ... and totally with another gorgeous guy. sigh. the whole "all the good ones are taken or gay" really rang true here. oh san francisco. meh.

day 3, we woke up to nessie imitating a demented rooster as she squawked about being hungry. it was an interesting way to wake up. Had brunch at Stable which was alright -  the guy at the counter was weird and i totally thought he was gay and flirting with Lyell but he was straight and the other waiter, the real 'mo, had a very very revealing v-neck shirt on.... which revealed waaaaaaaayyy too much chest hair for it being so early in the day and us not having had our first meal yet. all in all, a great ending to a wonderful weekend. i'm going to miss outings like this so much when I leave :(

also, on an unrelated note, char and I went out to look at a car or two today and I randomly got to ride around the block on the back of a harley davidson moterbike. lol. talk about random.

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When life is good in too many locations...

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

The week started off with a great dinner in Berkeley - good food, great (and enlightening) conversation and much laughter. Then up to Berkeley again today (it's like I never left, I've been up so often) for SEA trip planning, good food and lots and lots of laughter. Like I said, life is awesome!

But!

I just found out that back home, the boys and girls of the RSC Dingoes get to meet THE ALL BLACKS tomorrow!!!!!!!!!! WTF!!! AAAAAAaaahhhhhh! They're meeting all 60 of the World XV including Rugby legends Jonah Lomu, Andrew Mehrtens, Carlos Spencer,  Greg Somerville, Byron Kelleher and Reuben Thorne!!! OMG! And it's not one of those crappy meet the fans kinda thing - they get to meet them for DRINKS at a pub in Damansara!!! Oh man. So jealous!

Seriously. Life is good right now. But it seems to be pretty good back home too!! Why can't I be in two places at once?

p.s. making prawn noodle stock and there are cats lined up outside the window :)

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it really was just all about her :)

Sunday, June 6, 2010

Seriously, Lilah is so cute in that chubby asian baby way.....She totally made me want a baby or pester charl for one....at least while I held her....when I gave her back, the ovaries stopped working overtime, rational thinking returned and reality set in - maybe I just wanna borrow her for a couple of cuddles instead :)

Merv sadly doesn't know what to do with unsuspecting babies.

Charl, contemplating babies??

Aaaahh, SO SMALL AND CUTE! I want one tooooooooooo....but only on loan.

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Saturday, June 5, 2010

today....was okay. woke up really grouchy for some unknown reason.... but went used car shopping with charl. that was fun! .....not. four used car dealerships later, i think we're better off getting a car off craigslist than from the lots. eurgh.

but to make the day even better......

I spent 20 mins trying to plunge a toilet that is stuck for no reason. really. all I got was some nasty air..... so why the hell is it even stuck?!?!

ARGH!! seriously. Charl needs to call me back ASAP so I can get the landlord's number so I can get him to call the handyman. In the mean time, google has absolutely failed me :(

So yeah, this is how I'm spending my saturday night....quality time with my friends the toilet and plunger. Lovely.

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and the crazies have left the building...

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Fanime is over! yay! The rest of the con was not as mellow as Friday night and that sucked but overall, it was a pretty mellow con compared to last year. Not sure if I'll be back next year but if Charl is graduating, I might make it.

The bbq at Henri's was great too. I'm glad we got to see them and Mei-Hsia's fam too. The littlest Lin is sooooooooooo cute! ~ mellow and very wriggly :) And Anya is a spunky, energetic handful, as usual. I really can't believe she's already 5 and the baby is now 7 months. Time really does fly. Man, I feel old-ish.

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