Here I am Hawaii!

Monday, August 23, 2010

Just got to Hawaii today - cutting it close since school starts tomorrow. Not too happy that I'll have to deal with a whole bunch of admin bs on top of having to look for a place to live. What it basically comes down to is that I have a medical clearance hold on my registration that I didn't find out about until 2 days before arriving here. They want a record of my MMR vacination (which would be no problem if I actually had a copy) and a TB skin test. Problem is, the one I took in Berkeley isn't valid anymore and from past experience, this is gonna be a pain in the ass. I had a BCG shot as a child because that's how third world/developing countries roll. The BCG shot means I'll test positive on the Mantoux skin test (since I have the antibodies) and they will need to take an x-ray to show that I'm negative. So, not only is it going to take a while, it's gonna cost me because I don't have insurance yet.

It's a vicious cycle. I don't have the health clearance, I can't register for classes. I don't register for classes, I can't get my financial aid money. I can't get my financial aid, I can't pay for anything school related including health insurance through the school health care plan. Which brings me back to the fact that it's gonna cost me :( Boo. As if Hawaii isn't expensive enough.

On the bright side, just saw an awesome sunset over Waikiki from my hostel.

On the not so bright side, I'm in a hostel. Which means I need to look for housing but may not be able to do so without my financial aid money. Sigh. This really brings back memories of my time in Berkeley.

Will continue with the Cambodian posts soon!

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My Life in Ruins: Cambodia ~ week 2

Sunday, August 1, 2010


The Bayon in Angkor Thom

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team plague

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

OMG....someone pls put me out of my misery right now. I don't usually like medication but what I wouldn't give for some right now.

So, fyi, this is a TMI warning.

So, various people have been succumbing to something I like to call team plague. Nobody knows what it is but one by one, we've all been getting it with diff levels of intensity. I've finally fallen victim to it and I think it could either be food poisoning or stomach flu. Either one is not much better than the other, really. Been feeling sick all last night and dinner finally made it's appearance this morning. Why can't food taste good coming back up as it does going down? Yurck. I hate throwing up :( What's worse is that I can't keep anything down and I have to constantly run to the bathroom, not knowing which end I'm going to put to use....if I don't end up using both. Liquid diet, here I come. I can't believe I was insisting on going out to the site this morning (mostly cos I was feeling possessive of my unit. lol).....what a disaster that would have been.

Hopefully this is food poisoning (since stomach flu supposedly lasts longer) and I'll be done with it in a day or two. otherwise, this is going to suck. ahhh, fml.

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cats and dogs

Monday, July 26, 2010

It was raining cats and dogs for more of sunday night and it was still raining heavily come monday morning. So, a rain day was declared and people were assigned various tasks - mostly catching up on paperwork, transcribing, cleaning and sorting artifacts, taking pictures of the ceramics, etc. A small group went out to unit 2 where they have the big wedding tent and could therefore work regardless of the weather. I'd say that it sucks to be them but I think I'd rather have gone and done some work than stay behind and do paperwork. Worse, my work was interrupted 2-3 time because someone unplugged me (i took out my computer batter and just plugged into the wall) and i had to reboot and redo things over again since autosave recovery can only do so much :(

it's only 8.30pm but i'm soooooooo sleepy! i've gotten used to the early starts (i even wake up automatically at 5 something am now) and the early nights but i just can't get rid of the panda look. bleh.

week 2 pics and post to come. hopefully the rest of week 3 goes better!

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My Life in Ruins: Cambodia ~ week 1

Saturday, July 24, 2010

So you know how you spend like 3 hours trying to upload pictures on an entirely crappy connection then when that little bar is finally fully green it tells you that your upload failed? yeah. So the hundreds of pics I've taken are sitting on my computer until I get back to KL. On the upside, I downloaded picasa and put together a couple of collages because uploading everything one by one on blogger is killer.

Here's week one in Cambodia complete with PICTURES!!! Yay! It actually went through!!


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Thursday, July 22, 2010

bleh. we got caught out in the rain today. not fun.

the internet keeps cutting out but it let me on facebook for a bit today. i'm trying to upload some pics there but it's now almost 3 hours since I started on that particular quest (no thanks to the spotty internet).

gonna give it a few more mins. hopefully the pics and this post goes through this time around.

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My Life in Ruins: Cambodia ~ the basics

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Hello hello. Internet is pretty spotty so hopefully I can get this up. Oh yeah, facebook apparently doesn't work most times since the IP address switches between Vietnam and Cambodia or something like that. I dunno. Anyway, it's been a week and a half and so far, a really great experience. I recently got a message asking me what the heck I'm doing in Cambodia so until I can get photos up on facebook or up here, here are the basics.

Who:
Me.....and about 10-15 others. There's Mai from Seattle, Jenna from France, Dr. Stark from Hawaii, Shawn from Hawaii, Nick from Sarawak, Marie from the Philippines, Charlotte from Belgium/Vietnam, Noel from Singapore, Jim (Dr.s Stark's husband, also a prof at UH), Mei Mei (Dr. Stark's daughter) and about 4 Cambodian students from the Royal University of Fine Arts in Phnom Penh who are with us on a weekly rotating basis. We also have Rachna who's our APSARA liaison and a whole bunch of workmen who know Cambodian archaeology like the back of their hands. So, on site, I'd say there are about 25+ of us and about 15 of us off site. 

Where:
Cambodia, of course. But specifically, we work in the Angkor Wat enclosure and live at the Robert Christie Research Center in Siem Reap. It's a little far from Siem Reap's center but in a town this small, a little far means a 25 min walk or so. It does put us about a stone's throw away from the main entrance to the Angkor Archaeological Park though.

When:
From July 11th to August 10th.

What:
I'm in Cambodia to do field work. The project is part of the Greater Angkor Project (GAP) which is a collaboration between French, Australian and Cambodian researchers. The institutions involved are the University of Sydney, Ecole Francaise d'Extreme Orient (EFEO) and APSARA Autorite. USyd is the main coordinator which makes sense since GAP is mainly funded by the Australian government via the Australian Research Center. What this means is that they have a really nice research center and some very, very nice (and expensive) toys to play with. It's really a sweet set up.

The professor in charge of this month long dig is Professor Stark from the University of Hawaii, Manoa. She's been brought on to the project and this is supposed to be the 1st year of a 5 yr collaboration. If everything works out, she's the prof I'm hoping will take me on and be my adviser this Fall. I don't know how likely it'll be seeing as she already has two new Vietnamese students this yeah but I can always hope, yeah?

Anyway, briefly, our goal this field season is to look for Angkorian/Post-Angkorian deposits in hopes of answering questions related to settlement patterns and the habitation of Angkor Wat. That said, it means we're working directly IN the Angkor Wat enclosure. Totally awesome. Well, it's really hot and all that but how many people can actually say that they excavated in Angkor Wat? Every time I look up, I can see Angkor Wat. I eat lunch under a tree a few hundred meters behind Vishnu's butt in the west gopura and near by one of the libraries along the causeway leading up to the main wat.


 I guess that's it for the basics. I'll try to get more up if the internet doesn't crap out on me. And pics will come soon for the same reasons.

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My Life in Ruins: Cambodia

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Day 1 in Cambodia!!

For some reason, facebook doesn't work at the research center. Hmm. Go figure.

Had to get up at 3.30am to catch my Air Asia flight at the ass crack of dawn. But the LLCT was pretty packed and I was surprised at how everything was open despite the early hour. Hmm. Touched down and had a bit of confusion at immigration (nobody on my flight had the visa forms, only customs) where I got rejected at the counter and was sent wandering until I saw ppl from my flight swarming this one dude for forms.

Anyway, I'm here and it's really, really hot and humid - worse than KL. Met most of the team and they seem pretty nice. Managed to explore Siem Reap a little and visit the market where I bought a hat for $2.50! Awesome. Even so, for a supposedly cheap destination, some things can be surprisingly expensive!

Work starts bright and early tomorrow. Bleh. But we get to put a unit in the Angkor Wat enclosure so that'll be pretty cool :) Still coughing but not so sick anymore. Things are looking better and better. Yay!

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Closing one chapter and starting a new one

Saturday, July 10, 2010

wow. it's been a while. sigh, such a slacker.

let's see.....where did i leave off.....

urm, yeah. I basically spent the last two weekends of June in SF bumming with Van and the rest of the weekdays sorting out car issues. The week after her b'dae they had a "daddy issues"/welcome new (crazy) roommate party. It was fun - a total sausage fest and probably their best looking party to date. Seriously, there were very few mingers.....although, a couple of super cute guys walked in and pretty much walked back out due to the overdose of sausage. lol. I also unknowingly ended up in a weird triangle of like with this one dude and the new roommate. awkward. She likes him, he likes me, I think they're both meh. Em, you can totally have him. I'm actually glad I've left the country for a few months so I don't have to exchange awkward text msgs. Also, went to the flea market in Bernal Heights. Such a great way to spend a lazy Sunday.

Charl started her internship and William came by to visit during my last week. It honestly could have gone better. Having a friend come visit before relocating is kind of a dumb thing to do. Nevertheless, it all worked out without too much stress. I felt bad since I dragged him around all around the bay area to spend some time with my friends but what can I do when I want to hang out with ppl before I leave? He was a good sport about it but a little too quiet (my friends thought he was either super shy or super weird. lol.). Maybe it was a little too much to introduce him to SF during pride weekend. lol. Which brings me to another point. Pride. It was great and the gays were funny and the pink party was very very crowded. Bad part: we lost William. Seriously, shoulda put one of those kiddie harnesses on him :) I prolly should have had one too. lol. The hilarious part of the night was when Van bumped into her new co-workers; shattering their image of her as a good little asian girl and "outing" her because they thought I was her lesbian partner. haha. Then, on the way home from the pink party, a bunch of gays thought we were together too. lol. In hindsight, we did look pretty lesbian-ish and we have a pic from the next day to prove it. lolz. We were gonna see the backstreet boys perform but they took too long so we went to see the rice rockettes perform. It was an awesome drag show :)

So, that wraps up my SF experience. Totally gonna miss the SF bay area.

The flight to KL was one of the longest I've ever taken. San Jose to LA; LA to Taipei, Taipei KK, KK to KL. as comfortable as it was on business (thank you frequent flyer miles!), having that many layovers is killer. Was barley home 2-3 days when I got hit by some virus that's going around KL. the doc said it was the change of weather but still, I was and currently am super miserable. One week later, the meds are gone but no improvement apart from losing the fever. The second dr's visit and second round of stronger meds seem to be working but we'll see. I'm crossing my fingers because starting a month's worth of hard kuli labour in 2 days time while still sick is gonna suck so bad.

So, yeah. One week in KL and pretty much nothing to show for it. I barely had my fav foods (doc's advice - no oily, no spicy, no fried and no cold foods = no to 95% of Malaysian food ) but I did manage to meet up with some ppl and make it to Sara's engagement thingy today. Sigh, everything feels so rushed. Cambodia tomorrow! eeps!!

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why does it even surprise me....

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

So, I called Citibank to let them know I may be using my credit card outside the states and guess what? Apparently, they made the decision to cancel my card in Jan this year because I hadn't used it in 4 months. Really? WTF Citibank. I didn't even get any notification. Plus, I haven't used it in 4 months because they kept upping the APR on me without telling me. Bloody shady is what that is.

I wonder if they'll close my bank account too cos I haven't been using it since they are terrible in general and their customer service sucks for both bank accounts and credit cards...why no, I do not want to talk to you, Meh-tew, because you're obviously answering my call from a call center in India since you can't even pronounce your English name right and you keep telling me that the server is down for updates when I want to make any type of changes to my account.

The lady I spoke to today was like, if you want, I can transfer you and you can sign up for a new credit card. Are you kidding me? I was on the fence with Citibank but this is the last straw - never again Citibank, never again. They've lost all my business (I think I'll go close my account this week and just stick with Bank of America) and I will never recommend them to anyone. Absolutely horrible!

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Monday, June 21, 2010

#$#^$%*^@! this used car situation. I'm so pissed right now.

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you want to lecture me about being selfish? well, fuck you, you bloody hypocrite.

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What now????

Friday, June 18, 2010

So, remember how excited we were to have scored a car two days ago?? well, Char went to the DMV and the change of title can't be processed without a smog cert. The dude who sold it to us had apparently smogged it like 6 months ago which leaves us SOL because it needs to be within 3 months to be valid. We took it in today to get a smog check and it FAILED!!!!!! It passes the nox check for the 25 mph but not for the 15 mph. WTF?!? In my sister's words "so, we're polluting if we drive slow but okay if we drive fast?"

Yeah, we're both not happy campers right now. But we called the guy and I spoke to him and he agreed to pay for the smog failure diagnostics and depending on how much it costs to fix the problem, he might pay the full amount or we work something out. At least he didn't run away and not pick up and all. But this still sucks. Also, the odometer says 103, 000 miles but the title says 141,000. So, in the 8 months the dude had the car, it changed. The mechanic at the smog place told us that's a huge thing we could nail him with because it's fraud. So, if he doesn't work with us to get everything sorted out, we're gonna report him. Also, no smog cert = no change of title = the car is still in his name (well, his girlfriend's name) so he knows he can't run cos if he does and we're vindictive, we can rack up the traffic fines on the car (like parking fines or camera-caught red light violations, etc) and he'll have to pay or lose his license. We're not like that and totally want to sort everything out but I hope he realizes how much damage we could do if we were so inclined. I wish we could just get our money back in exchange for the car but we can't. apparently he's used the money already.....it's probably a lie but that just means we can't do a 90 day return like at the stores. Boo.

Regardless, we can't check or do anything until we get the diagnostics done on Monday. The dude offered to fix the car himself but we really don't trust him to do a good job. See? we're learning. The learning curve is a steep one but that's life. It's just one more thing checked off on my check list of things I've been screwed over for in America. I have one for each country; it's easier to keep track of that way and makes for interesting comparisons. 

So yeah, despite my near constant googling of any and all resources on buying a used car, there are many perils that google did not warn me about. FML.

Also, the creepy black dude who tried to sell us the Mazda called Char twice yesterday to see if we want the car and then when we called back today to say no, he was like, "so now that we've got business out of the way, when are you free to hang out?" She tells him she's too busy. "Oh, what about your friend?" My sis looks at me and lies about me leaving this weekend. "Oh, alright. Can I keep your number and call you to chat?" WTF? Seriously?!?!? Char has got his number saved under "Creeper. Do NOT Answer" Apparently, he called about an hour later but we were receiving the bad news about the smog test and didn't hear the phone. ......ooops....too bad.....NOT! Jeeze, why us???

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finally, the search has ended!

Thursday, June 17, 2010

So, shopping on craigslist for a used car on a very small budget is ....quite an experience. After a couple days of intensive searching (because we've learnt that all the good stuff goes quickly - sometimes just hours after being posted!), we've got a new addition to the family fleet:

A '97 Honda Civic! Yay!

It's a little beat up and will need some work done but we think we done good for what we paid. The budget was about $3000, we got it for $2300 and repairs will probably cost about $500-700 ish. Not bad for San Jose.

Honestly though, if we could have afforded something more for less hassle we definitely would have paid it because the search was annoying and definitely left us with some stories to tell :/

The first car we went to look at was a '95 Honda accord. It looked good on the outside but that was because the guy selling it had an autobody shop and had repainted it so he could sell it for more. It was about our price range and Char was optimistic because she thought the seller was Asian - and we all know that the stereotypical asian dude ALWAYS keeps his car in good shape. lol. Uh, Char's racial meter via the phone sucks because the guy was Hispanic. There's nothing wrong with that. I just thought it was funny how she totally could not tell through the phone. Anyhoo, we ask a couple of questions and every time we touched on something we thought was wrong with the car, the guys would start with, " Uh yeah, about that....." He had apparently bought it at an auction and fixed it up. While that's fine and the outside looked brand spankin' new, things were broken and there were holes in the seats.The engine also made this loud squealing noise before rumbling to life rather reluctantly ("Yeah, about that.....my mechanic says that's normal for that kind of car." Seriously? Do you think we were born yesterday??). We took it around the block and it was loud as heck. So yeah, no. 1 car down, and the search continues.

The next car we looked at was this Mazda being sold by an African American dude. Char thought he sounded Mexican on the phone. That's phone 2, Char 0. He came rumbling in on his harley and was super nice....at first. he was up front about some major things the car needed and as we took it around the block, it was loud but not as loud as the first one. We chatted and apparently he used to be a fireman (it made me think of you Queena) and was injured and taking fire classed at community college. Now, it's the stupidest thing but I always feel that men in uniform like firemen, EMTs and policemen are less likely to scam me....it's probably not true but that's how we've been conditioned - to always trust uniformed officers (urm, except for the cops back home. with them you always know that they won't even bother trying to scam you; they just ask for the bribe upfront). So when he mentioned the fireman thing along with the (vague) honesty he showed about the car's major defaults, I was more inclined to trust him about the car than say, car guy #1 from the day before. He also mentioned that he used to be a mechanic for Toyota and we could obviously see that he was working on several classic cars at his place (He had a very sweet mustang he was restoring).

So it's all good. Until he starts being inappropriate. It starts off small - a comment about us being "beeautiiiful girls from Maaaalaysiiiiaaaa" and went on to "do you guys date" and "Have you ever dated a black guy". Urm....what??? He then insistently gives me a ride on his harley (because I said I don't like motorbikes and had never been on one and I figure, eh, what the heck) which was nice of him but then he mentions that I can now say that my first "ride" was with a black man and he tells us to add him on facebook and that he wants to take us out to dinner and we can ride with him and his motorbike buddies. EXCUSE ME ?!? WTH?!? yeah, we tried to leave so many times but he just went on and on and on. general conversation is fine but we've only just met you like 15 mins ago! Innuendos and questions about our dating lives and weird overtures of friendship? So NOT okay! Then he calls char the next day to chat. Urm. As interested as we were in the car, this dude was seriously creeping us out so we cut our losses and lied and hopefully we'll never see/hear from him ever again.That's like 2 hours wasted.

Next dude we met with for a '96 honda was suuuuuuuper shady. once again, Char thought he was Asian....he was Mexican. lol. Phone 3, Char 0. It looked alright but he was very pushy. Before we had even gone around the block completely, he pretty much asked us for the entire amount in cash upfront right then and there and kept telling us that he had so many ppl lined up for it. He also didn't want us to check the car out at a mechanic's and when asked about the pink slip and bill of sale, he took out some crumpled pieces of paper from his pocket. Urm? It wasn't even his car. He was so pushy and shady, we said no then went grocery shopping. lol. He later called Char and was like, when you wanna come and see the car and Char was like....urm, I just saw it. i wanted to take it in to a mechanic tomorrow. He quickly hung up on her.

Finally, we end up at yesterday's car experience which was actually relatively painless and more legit than any of the others. We checked it out, test drove it and brought it to the mechanic. There are a couple of major defects that will require work (but we kinda knew it would based on how much we were paying for it), it's a little scratched up and has really tacky zebra floor mats (we're tossing those. eww.) and they totally lied about the mileage (it was still less than every other car we'd seen) but the guy was super nice, pretty up front about things and was very patient when we brought it to be checked out and a few hours later, my sis is the proud owner of her first car! :) This whole buying a used car is a huge hassle though. I can totally see why a lot of ppl like to go to dealers. But beggars can't be choosers and we managed to luck out fairly quickly in the search for transportation. Man, was that exhausting!

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what a weekend

Monday, June 14, 2010

Nessie's birthday weekend was awesome :)

the general gathering at 83 proof was good - saw some familiar faces and had to entertain weird new ones (bleh) and nessie was totally right about the bartender being really really hot AND he could make some amazing cocktails that I sampled off the 'mos. yum. Like all drunken nessie gatherings, it was very entertaining to see her totter around the bar and try to stay in her red hoochie mama dress. lol. i think some of the best quotes from that night were:

~ "i'm not going to titty fuck my phone!" ~ when Nessie, worried about losing her phone, refused to keep it in the cleavage between dolce and gabbana because Lilo was gonna be evil and call it while it sat between the ginormous boobies

~ " my dress is three six inch penises long! see, one, two, three!"~ when Van rather loudly hand measured the length of her red hochie mama dress

i'm sure there were more but i really can't remember them. lol.

the indo mee after was really good too, especially when van cooked it and fried an egg drunk and mostly blind at 3am. real talent right there.

day 2 of the nessie extravaganza was fairly mellow in the morning as we wandered around the mission then took like a 15 min nap :) Then it was off to Foreign Cinema where the food was pretty good and terribly expensive - the fried chicken was probably the best entree, the sea bass....not so much, the aprium tart was good and the sexy beast was wonderful - tastes almost like ribena. the movie, a single man, looked interesting. might have to go watch it now. the 'mos all looked really nice and sonny proved that he was not a bad gay by finding a shiney card and great watch for nessie. After dinner drinks and desserts were followed by more drinks and a cheese plate at this wine bar called Heart where there were loads of marina yuppies slummin' it and we sat next to a group of cougars and talked loudly about sex. lol. And to top it all off, the 'mos took my gay bar cherry by bringing me to the castro to dance. it was great since there weren't any guys trying to grossly hump me on the dance floor (biggest pet peeve at a club) but also terribly depressing because a whole bunch of the guys there were just gorgeous ... and totally with another gorgeous guy. sigh. the whole "all the good ones are taken or gay" really rang true here. oh san francisco. meh.

day 3, we woke up to nessie imitating a demented rooster as she squawked about being hungry. it was an interesting way to wake up. Had brunch at Stable which was alright -  the guy at the counter was weird and i totally thought he was gay and flirting with Lyell but he was straight and the other waiter, the real 'mo, had a very very revealing v-neck shirt on.... which revealed waaaaaaaayyy too much chest hair for it being so early in the day and us not having had our first meal yet. all in all, a great ending to a wonderful weekend. i'm going to miss outings like this so much when I leave :(

also, on an unrelated note, char and I went out to look at a car or two today and I randomly got to ride around the block on the back of a harley davidson moterbike. lol. talk about random.

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